ODE TO A DEAR FRIEND

Written by Tabitha for Deborah

(Who wouldn't be motivated to press ahead day after day?)


Dear sister, how often I lift your name to the Maker

Praising Him for all He does through you.

Tenderly, carefully, tirelessly

You serve and graciously give to each who comes

With open hands and a broken heart.

Who encourages the encourager?

Who cares for the caregiver?

Who serves the servant?

Each day I pray that it will be me.

So well you seem to understand God's directives

That to be great, one must be

Humbled in servitude.

Not only, as many would like to think, to the lovely

But to the unlovely as well.

I watch, dear sister, as our God

Shapes you through tribulations

And grows you more and more into

The woman that the world so desperately needs

For no one else is Deborah, and no one else

Can walk your path.

No one else is strong enough

To walk that path.

God gave you alone that particular strength

Oh how I wish

That the Lord had given you an easy path

But how I praise Him

That He has gifted you with the love

That would strive to spare others the same pains.

I often read of your life

And marvel

That you are the woman you have become.

How unfailingly

You reach out.

You reach out to infertiles

And bring us the hope of parenthood.

While teaching us a love

Of the one whose sacrifice will grant us joy.

You reach out to those who cannot trust

Who have been burned and scarred

By those of cruel motives

And teach them of the hope they can regain in the Lord.

You reach out to birthparents

And give them a reason to bring forth life

With the experience that comes from

Your own anguish.

You reach out to birth grandparents

To ease their pain

And to spare birthmothers the type of pain

That was thrust upon you.

How many would bother?

How many would care?

How many can transcend their own selfish desires

To help others?

You.

And I pray each day

That God will continue

To turn rain into flowers

Sweltering heat into sweet apples

And lemons

Into lemonade.


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